A novelty light hat is not a lily in the field but a lily in your lamp with a purple/white shade in glass. A man at the base of the lamp holding it up. Like Hercules, a hero of superhuman strength and courage, performing a deed that will keep the lamp upright and free from falling down. LampsLightsGalore.com
If you are not able to please your lover with gifts, try giving her a lamp with a lily designed in the shade. She will be so surprised she will forget you forgot her birthday.